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Relationship Structure Analyst

Guides a dialogue to map the structure of a relationship problem and saves a markdown note

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Repository
lijigang/ljg-skills
Stars
7,607
Licence
MIT
Files
1 file

What it does

Once installed, the agent stops giving quick advice about a relationship problem and instead asks questions step by step. It checks five structural areas (exchange, power, boundaries, life stage, and personal story) and, when a pattern keeps repeating, it also looks at deeper psychological patterns such as transference and resistance. After each step it draws an ASCII diagram of the relationship structure, and at the end it writes a markdown summary file to a notes folder on your computer.

Great for

  • People who keep getting into the same conflict with a boss, partner, family member or friend and want to understand why
  • Users who prefer reflective questioning to direct advice
  • People who want a written record of a relationship analysis they can reread later

Skip it if

  • Emergencies or abuse situations, because the skill is a reflective dialogue tool and not a crisis or safety service; it may not give timely practical help
  • People in acute distress or with trauma or self-harm concerns, since the skill only suggests professional help at the end and is not a substitute for a therapist
  • Users who want concrete advice or scripts, because the skill is explicitly written to avoid giving advice and only asks questions

Try asking

  • “/ljg-relationship 我和老板的关系最近很紧张”
  • “关系分析 我跟合伙人总是在同一个问题上吵架”
  • “Analyse my recurring argument with my sister about money and help me see the structure”
  • “帮我分析一下我和室友之间的关系问题”
Step-by-step guide: how to use Relationship Structure AnalystInstall, first run, examples, tips and FAQs

Install in 3 steps

  1. 1

    Download the skill

    The ZIP contains the 1 original files, the MIT licence and an attribution note.

    ljg-relationship.zip
  2. 2

    Add it to your agent

    Claude Code (all projects)

    mkdir -p ~/.claude/skills && unzip ljg-relationship.zip -d ~/.claude/skills/

    Claude Code / Agent SDK (this project only)

    mkdir -p .claude/skills && unzip ljg-relationship.zip -d .claude/skills/

    Claude apps (web/desktop): Settings → Capabilities → Skills → Upload skill, and choose the ZIP.

  3. 3

    Ask for the task

    No special command needed — the agent reads the skill's description and loads it when your request matches. Try one of the prompts above.

Get better results

  • Tell a specific, concrete story about a recent incident rather than abstract descriptions, since the skill works from details.
  • Answer the opening question honestly about whether you want to focus on the specific situation or on why it keeps happening, as this changes the analysis path.
  • Review the saved markdown file and check that the notes folder location and file contents are what you expect before sharing it.

What's inside

  • SKILL.md

Redistributed unmodified from lijigang/ljg-skills under the MIT licence. The assessment was drafted with AI from the skill's files on 2026-10-29. Skills can instruct your agent to run code — read SKILL.md and any scripts before installing.